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The art of seducing an older woman can be exciting and constructive. Remember that everyone will have more experiences to share. Don’t be under the mistaken impression that the tactic used to attract a younger woman will work for older women as well. Very often you will find that guys get quite nervous at the prospect of even approaching a lady older than him.
Did you know that according to pop culture, a cougar is a beautiful woman who is in her forties or older? So the younger man who dates an older woman is commonly called Cougar Dating and as everything in the world has progressed, so has a younger man trying to seduce older women. Here are some tips you can use to get and keep a cougar.
Tip No. # 1: Relax … and appear unflappable. First, start a conversation naturally and easily. Say the right things to get the answers to more than one word from her. Treat her like she’s one in a million. Compliment her on her appearance, be extremely courteous, and be sure to pay attention to every detail. Comment on her dress and the way she wears her hair.
Tip No. # 2: stop reminding him of his age. While talking to an older woman, you should not make her feel her age by any effort of imagination. Anyway, don’t exaggerate by saying that he looks like someone much younger. She will instantly know that you are faking everything. It would be better to comment on his intelligence and how well he behaves.
Tip No. 3: Make the lady feel wanted. Show him that you really care. Keep in mind that they have been through most of this in their youth, so tread carefully. Older women are more independent. Let her speak most of the time and show that you are genuinely interested in everything she has to say.
Tip # 4: Get “sensory.” Try to seduce her by stimulating her senses; use body language to ignite his sexual desires and be attracted to you. Talk about sex with her without inhibitions and get her to get rid of it.
Be very natural in the whole thing. Gradually progress from talking about sex to the actual act and give her the feeling that it was she who instigated everything. Give her the best time of her life, turning your meeting with her into something really wild and exciting.
Remember that an older woman may be looking for a short-term casual relationship or something really long lasting and may need emotional connections before she can fully fit in with you. They may be looking for adventures with younger people probably because they have had their share of older and more experienced relationships.