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Fear is a beast that destroys everything. We have to make an effort to go beyond fear. Fear has the ability to dominate all aspects of our lives, especially when it comes to relationships. Fear is like a leech and once it attaches itself to an experience or to us, it remains there and continues to feed on us.
When fear attaches itself to some aspect of our lives, that fear becomes part of us and we end up getting in our own way. To get out of our own way we have to lose our minds. Our mind is where fear takes shape and Love resides in our Spirits. Fear and love can no longer coexist. Love is positive energy and fear is negative energy; they are opposites. We cannot love with emotions that arise from worry and fear of the unknown. Ask yourself this, how can someone love with fears of “What if?” How can someone love himself if he is full of fear? If you live in fear that your heart will break, how can you love someone? How can someone love with doubts, which ultimately come from fear? I often wonder how people can fear God and love God at the same time, when fear blocks the flow of love.
Thinking is knowing; not knowing is flowing.
Flow is not thinking. Thinking is thinking;
No mind is spirit. The spirit is not thinking.
The spirit must flow; the mind is knowing.
Flow is not mind. The fear is in the mind;
The mind is blocking. Blocking is not flowing.
Not to flow is to fear. Love is for the spirit;
The spirit must flow. Flow is not mind.
There is no mind to love.
Fear blocks the flow of love within ourselves and towards others.
So if you’re looking for a scapegoat, fear is where you should point your finger. Since fear clung to you, then you are pointing your finger at yourself. We create our fears when we worry about the future and if we want to eliminate fear, we have to live in the “Now”. When we live in the “Now” it is impossible to live in fear of the future because what is happening in the moment unfolds with each breath. Technically, the “Now” is all we have, so why spend time in fear of the unknown, in fear of what might happen? If you really think about it, many of us spend a lot of time reviewing the past and thinking about the future. It really makes you wonder who is really “here”.
With each creation of fear, an individual is creating walls of fear that take the form of a box. Inside this box there is a window that allows to warn the individual of what / who is approaching him. For the individual, this box is for protection from the outside when the individual within the box causes the most damage.
Those of you who fear that the past will become the future eventually end up with the “Now” being the past. Therefore, your reality is in the past; hence why you enter a relationship full of fear or live in fear. Learn from the past and then release it, live in the “Now” and accept that the future is yet to be determined.